Communication is the essential element of any healthy, stable marriage relationship. Good communication extends into all areas of marriage and life including family finances. You should talk with your spouse often about your financial situation and the goals you both have for your financial future. It may be difficult to communicate openly and effectively about money at first, as you both may have a differing view of it, but hang in there and keep it civil. Try to be level headed and to respect each other’s opinions and views without seeming judgemental.